鱼眼的故事

这里有一个故事，听起来有一点苦涩的故事。说的是一个女人与她第一任男友之间的事情。女人那时刚大学毕业，很矜持，只会腼典的笑。两人第一次到海鲜馆吃饭，男人为她点了一条鱼，鱼身还没动，男友就先夹起鱼眼放到她面前：“喜欢吃鱼眼吗？”她不喜欢，而且也从来不吃鱼眼，却不忍拒绝，便羞涩应许。男友告诉她说，他很喜欢吃鱼眼，小时候家里每次吃鱼，奶奶都把鱼眼夹给他吃，说鱼眼可明目，奶奶死了再也没人把鱼眼夹给他了。

其实鱼眼并没有什么好吃的，男友笑着说，只是从小被奶奶宠惯了，每次吃鱼，鱼眼都归我，以后，就归你了，让我也宠宠你。男友深情的看着她，她想不明白，为什么鱼眼就代表着宠爱呢？但是明不明白无所谓，反正以后只要是吃鱼，男友必定会把鱼眼夹给她，再慢慢地看着她把它吃完。

慢慢地，她习惯了。习惯了每次吃鱼前等着男友把鱼眼夹给她。那时男友已在市区买下一所房子打算结婚。而她要的生活不是如此。因为她年轻，有才华，她不甘心在这个城市呆一辈子，她要成功，要做女强人，要实现少年时的梦。男友送她时，她连头都没回一下，走的很决绝。在外拼博了许多年，她的梦想终于实现。拥有一家公司，可爱情始终以一种寂寞的姿态存在，她发现自己根本就再也爱不上谁了。

这么多年在外，每有宴会必有鱼，可再也没有人把鱼眼夹给她了。她常常在散席离开时回头一眼满桌的狼藉，与鱼眼对视。后来，她回到曾经生活过的城市，昔日的男友已为人夫，她应邀去那所原本属于她的房子里吃晚餐。他的妻子做了一条鱼，他夹起一大块鱼肉放在她的碟子里，鱼眼却给了他的妻子。这么多年，无论多苦多累，她都没掉过眼泪，但那一刻她却怎么也忍不住了。

就是这么简单，没有人会在原处等你。其实，真爱就是两个人默默相守的快乐。当我们明白时，我们已失去了。如果已经离开，就不必回头。

*摘自某报章的短文。

看了这篇文章真的感触良多，不知在阅读的读者们有何感想呢？人为何总是要那么怪呢，要等到失去才要去惋惜，拥有时却不好好去珍惜与把握。很多人都懂得这个道理但去实践它的人又有几个？人世的变迁是变幻莫测的，错过了，即使有再多的钱与成就也挽回不了那份最初的感觉，剩下的只有那分永远弥补不了的遗憾。

怎么突然就成了这样？？？

怎么突然就成了这样? 脸上的笑容消失得无影无踪。

怎么突然就成了这样？以前的画面再也不复存在。

怎么突然就成了这样？现实总是要那么的残酷呢。

怎么突然就成了这样？世事的变迁总是无法掌控。

怎么突然就成了这样？上天就是爱来开玩笑。

怎么突然就成了这样？我的初衷并非是酱的结局。

人生的无奈是上天给的考验还是自做自受？

时间到底是帮我们治疗伤痛还是让我们习惯伤痛而已？

The celebrations of new year 2009 in various country

Since 2day is the 1st day of 2009, lets look around all over the world to see how do they celebrate new year....

Malaysia



Indonesia


Singapore


Philippines


Taiwan


Hong Kong


Japan


Russia


Greece


Germany


Hungary


Poland


Lithuanian



Portugal


England



Australia

The 1st post In year 2009

Wau!!!!Its been been a long time i din update my blog since last year October,finally i decided write my blog on dis memorable day-1st of January 2009,the 1st day in year 2009.

Erm,its alrdy been about month after STPM(04.12.2008),many things do change?or nothing change?What is the 1st tHough in ur mind after STPM?Finally free?time to throw away those bored books?time to go 4 vacation?time to get a Gud rest after a hectic moment(stpm)?time to work & earn alot-alot of money?time to run a 'superior' plan?I am sure dat dese are the few thoughs that appear in our mind after stpm,the question here is do u all reach ur task?do u all satisfied wif the situation dat u r having now? iszit dis the lifestyle dat u all dreamt for after stpm?

Anyway,2009 is a brand new year for us,there will be alot of challenges and surprises are waiting for us to solve &discover ,i will just take dis opportunity to wish all of my frens happy new year and most important stay healthy ,dun worry,be happy.

Gun Lae Gun(Thai Version=original version)

Lyrics
taa bok waa pleng nee dtaeng hai ter ter ja cheua mai
man aat mai pror mai seung mai suay ngaam meuan pleng tua bpai

yaak hai roo waa pleng rak taa mai rak gor kian mai daai
dtae gap ter kon dee roo mai chan kian yaang ngaai ... daai

ter kong koie dai-yin pleng rak maa nap roi pan
man aat ja dohn jai
dtae gor mee kwaam maai meuan-meuan gan dtae taa ter fang pleng nee
pleng tee kian peua ter tao nan
peua ter kao jai kwaam maai laew jai ja daai mee gan lae gan

hai man bpen pleng bon taang dern kiang tee ja mee piang siang ter gap chan
yoo duay gan dtraap naan-naan
dang nai jai kwaam bok nai ga-wee waa dtraap dai tee mee rak yom mee wang
keu took krang tee rak kong ter song jai chan mee bplaai taang
Gun lae gun (You and me) lyrics on
http://music.yeucahat.com/song/Movie-Game-Ads/39001-Gun-lae-gun~Witwisit-Hirunwongkul.html

mee kwaam jing yoo nai kwaam rak dtang maak maai
lae tee paan maa chan chai way-laa peua haa kwaam maai
dtae mai naan gor perng roo meua took krang tee mee ter glai
waa taa chee-wit keu tam nong ter gor bpen dang kam rong tee pror lae seung jap jai

hai man bpen pleng bon taang dern kiang tee ja mee piang siang ter gap chan
yoo duay gan dtraap naan-naan
dang nai jai kwaam bok nai ga-wee waa dtraap dai tee mee rak yom mee wang
keu took krang tee rak kong ter song jai chan mee bplaai taang
mee taang dern hai rao dern kiang lae mee siang kong ter gap chan
mee taang dern hai rao dern ruam kiang lae mee siang kong ter gap chan

Together（同行)

Lyrics
What if i say,this is the song written for you,
如果我说这是为你而写的歌，
It might be too frank,not like other song do,
它可能比较坦白和其他歌曲不一样，
I've just want u to know,
我只是想让你知道
If no love,there's no love song,
如果没有爱，那就没有情歌的存在，
But for you i can easily glide along,
但因为你，这一切显得驾轻就熟,
You must have heard million of ordinary songs often,
你一定听过很多传统的情歌，
The inspiration are the same they came of,
它们灵感的来源是一样的，
But if u hear it carefully,
但如果你听清楚，
You will see what i was meant,
你就懂得我的意思了，
That beside my feelings,You'll only hear silence,
这里除了我的感觉，你只能听见沉默，
chorus
Its just a song for two of us,
这是我们两人的歌，
Only you and me are discussed,
里头只有你和我，
We together from now on,
从此我们在一起，
Like poetry without the scope,
就像没有限制的诗集，
When there is love ,there is always hope,
那里有爱，那里就有希望，
Every time your love shines on my heart ,I''ll always free,
每当你的爱在我的心里发亮的时候，我就很自由，
love have many different descriptions,
爱有很多的诠释，
And I 've spend time , trying to find the one
我花了很多时间，为的只是要寻找它，
Finally ,i realize every time You are near by,
终于，我明白每当你靠近，
That if my life is the songs then you are the world,
那我的生命好比这首歌而你就是全世界，
Fulfills with perfect mind,
充满着完美的思想 ，
Chorus 2
Its just a song for two of us,
这是我们两人的，
Only you and me are discussed,
里头只有你和我，
We together from now on,
从此我们在一起，
Like poetry without the scope,
就像没有限制的诗集，
Every time your love shines on my heart ,I''ll always free,
每当你的爱在我的心里发亮的时，我就很自由，
Together we walk along,with my voice and yours in song,
我们一起跟着这首歌并肩同行。
Together we walk along,with my voice and yours in song.
我们一起跟着这首歌并肩同行。

A Simple But Meaningful Philosophy

1. I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.

我愛你不是因為你是誰，而是我在你面前可以是誰。

2. No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry.

沒有男人或女人是值得你為他流眼淚，值得的那一位，不會要你哭。

3. Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

那人不是你所想般愛你，但不代表那人不是全心全意地愛你。

4. A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.

一個真正的朋友是向著你伸手，觸動你心靈的人。

5. The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can't have them.

掛念一個人最差的方式，就是你坐在他身旁，而知道你不能擁有他。

6. Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.

就算你不快樂也不要皺眉，因為你永不知道誰會愛上你的笑容。

7. To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.

在世界裡你可能只是某人，但對某人你可能是全世界。

8. Don't waste your time on a man/woman, who isn't willing to waste their time on you.

不要花時間在一個不會花時間在你身上的人。

9. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when

we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful.

可能神要我們在遇到那位對的人之前先遇上一些錯的人，讓我們遇到那位對先生/對小姐時懂得珍惜。

10. Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened.

不要因為完結而哭，要為曾經發生而微笑。

11. There's always going to be people that hurt you so what you have to do is keep on trusting

and just be more careful about who you trust next time around.

這個世界永遠也會有一些傷害你的人，你要做的就是繼續去信人和小心你下次信的人。

12. Make yourself a better person and know who you are before you try and know someone else and expect them to know you.

在你嘗試了解其他人和盼望其他人明白你之前，先把你自己變成一個更好的人和了解你自己。

13. Don't try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to.

不要太努力去找，最好的東西是在你最預計不到的時候出現。

REMEMBER: WHATEVER HAPPENS, HAPPENS FOR A REASON.

緊記: 所有事也是因果循環的。

*This is what i get from a mail then i found out that many Things from the mail are very useful so i would like to share with u all here.Thus,i really hope that all of us learn some lesson and get the massages from these philosophy.