鱼眼的故事

这里有一个故事，听起来有一点苦涩的故事。说的是一个女人与她第一任男友之间的事情。女人那时刚大学毕业，很矜持，只会腼典的笑。两人第一次到海鲜馆吃饭，男人为她点了一条鱼，鱼身还没动，男友就先夹起鱼眼放到她面前：“喜欢吃鱼眼吗？”她不喜欢，而且也从来不吃鱼眼，却不忍拒绝，便羞涩应许。男友告诉她说，他很喜欢吃鱼眼，小时候家里每次吃鱼，奶奶都把鱼眼夹给他吃，说鱼眼可明目，奶奶死了再也没人把鱼眼夹给他了。

其实鱼眼并没有什么好吃的，男友笑着说，只是从小被奶奶宠惯了，每次吃鱼，鱼眼都归我，以后，就归你了，让我也宠宠你。男友深情的看着她，她想不明白，为什么鱼眼就代表着宠爱呢？但是明不明白无所谓，反正以后只要是吃鱼，男友必定会把鱼眼夹给她，再慢慢地看着她把它吃完。

慢慢地，她习惯了。习惯了每次吃鱼前等着男友把鱼眼夹给她。那时男友已在市区买下一所房子打算结婚。而她要的生活不是如此。因为她年轻，有才华，她不甘心在这个城市呆一辈子，她要成功，要做女强人，要实现少年时的梦。男友送她时，她连头都没回一下，走的很决绝。在外拼博了许多年，她的梦想终于实现。拥有一家公司，可爱情始终以一种寂寞的姿态存在，她发现自己根本就再也爱不上谁了。

这么多年在外，每有宴会必有鱼，可再也没有人把鱼眼夹给她了。她常常在散席离开时回头一眼满桌的狼藉，与鱼眼对视。后来，她回到曾经生活过的城市，昔日的男友已为人夫，她应邀去那所原本属于她的房子里吃晚餐。他的妻子做了一条鱼，他夹起一大块鱼肉放在她的碟子里，鱼眼却给了他的妻子。这么多年，无论多苦多累，她都没掉过眼泪，但那一刻她却怎么也忍不住了。

就是这么简单，没有人会在原处等你。其实，真爱就是两个人默默相守的快乐。当我们明白时，我们已失去了。如果已经离开，就不必回头。

*摘自某报章的短文。

看了这篇文章真的感触良多，不知在阅读的读者们有何感想呢？人为何总是要那么怪呢，要等到失去才要去惋惜，拥有时却不好好去珍惜与把握。很多人都懂得这个道理但去实践它的人又有几个？人世的变迁是变幻莫测的，错过了，即使有再多的钱与成就也挽回不了那份最初的感觉，剩下的只有那分永远弥补不了的遗憾。

怎么突然就成了这样？？？

怎么突然就成了这样? 脸上的笑容消失得无影无踪。

怎么突然就成了这样？以前的画面再也不复存在。

怎么突然就成了这样？现实总是要那么的残酷呢。

怎么突然就成了这样？世事的变迁总是无法掌控。

怎么突然就成了这样？上天就是爱来开玩笑。

怎么突然就成了这样？我的初衷并非是酱的结局。

人生的无奈是上天给的考验还是自做自受？

时间到底是帮我们治疗伤痛还是让我们习惯伤痛而已？

The celebrations of new year 2009 in various country

Since 2day is the 1st day of 2009, lets look around all over the world to see how do they celebrate new year....

Malaysia



Indonesia


Singapore


Philippines


Taiwan


Hong Kong


Japan


Russia


Greece


Germany


Hungary


Poland


Lithuanian



Portugal


England



Australia

The 1st post In year 2009

Wau!!!!Its been been a long time i din update my blog since last year October,finally i decided write my blog on dis memorable day-1st of January 2009,the 1st day in year 2009.

Erm,its alrdy been about month after STPM(04.12.2008),many things do change?or nothing change?What is the 1st tHough in ur mind after STPM?Finally free?time to throw away those bored books?time to go 4 vacation?time to get a Gud rest after a hectic moment(stpm)?time to work & earn alot-alot of money?time to run a 'superior' plan?I am sure dat dese are the few thoughs that appear in our mind after stpm,the question here is do u all reach ur task?do u all satisfied wif the situation dat u r having now? iszit dis the lifestyle dat u all dreamt for after stpm?

Anyway,2009 is a brand new year for us,there will be alot of challenges and surprises are waiting for us to solve &discover ,i will just take dis opportunity to wish all of my frens happy new year and most important stay healthy ,dun worry,be happy.

Gun Lae Gun(Thai Version=original version)

Lyrics
taa bok waa pleng nee dtaeng hai ter ter ja cheua mai
man aat mai pror mai seung mai suay ngaam meuan pleng tua bpai

yaak hai roo waa pleng rak taa mai rak gor kian mai daai
dtae gap ter kon dee roo mai chan kian yaang ngaai ... daai

ter kong koie dai-yin pleng rak maa nap roi pan
man aat ja dohn jai
dtae gor mee kwaam maai meuan-meuan gan dtae taa ter fang pleng nee
pleng tee kian peua ter tao nan
peua ter kao jai kwaam maai laew jai ja daai mee gan lae gan

hai man bpen pleng bon taang dern kiang tee ja mee piang siang ter gap chan
yoo duay gan dtraap naan-naan
dang nai jai kwaam bok nai ga-wee waa dtraap dai tee mee rak yom mee wang
keu took krang tee rak kong ter song jai chan mee bplaai taang
Gun lae gun (You and me) lyrics on
http://music.yeucahat.com/song/Movie-Game-Ads/39001-Gun-lae-gun~Witwisit-Hirunwongkul.html

mee kwaam jing yoo nai kwaam rak dtang maak maai
lae tee paan maa chan chai way-laa peua haa kwaam maai
dtae mai naan gor perng roo meua took krang tee mee ter glai
waa taa chee-wit keu tam nong ter gor bpen dang kam rong tee pror lae seung jap jai

hai man bpen pleng bon taang dern kiang tee ja mee piang siang ter gap chan
yoo duay gan dtraap naan-naan
dang nai jai kwaam bok nai ga-wee waa dtraap dai tee mee rak yom mee wang
keu took krang tee rak kong ter song jai chan mee bplaai taang
mee taang dern hai rao dern kiang lae mee siang kong ter gap chan
mee taang dern hai rao dern ruam kiang lae mee siang kong ter gap chan

Together（同行)

Lyrics
What if i say,this is the song written for you,
如果我说这是为你而写的歌，
It might be too frank,not like other song do,
它可能比较坦白和其他歌曲不一样，
I've just want u to know,
我只是想让你知道
If no love,there's no love song,
如果没有爱，那就没有情歌的存在，
But for you i can easily glide along,
但因为你，这一切显得驾轻就熟,
You must have heard million of ordinary songs often,
你一定听过很多传统的情歌，
The inspiration are the same they came of,
它们灵感的来源是一样的，
But if u hear it carefully,
但如果你听清楚，
You will see what i was meant,
你就懂得我的意思了，
That beside my feelings,You'll only hear silence,
这里除了我的感觉，你只能听见沉默，
chorus
Its just a song for two of us,
这是我们两人的歌，
Only you and me are discussed,
里头只有你和我，
We together from now on,
从此我们在一起，
Like poetry without the scope,
就像没有限制的诗集，
When there is love ,there is always hope,
那里有爱，那里就有希望，
Every time your love shines on my heart ,I''ll always free,
每当你的爱在我的心里发亮的时候，我就很自由，
love have many different descriptions,
爱有很多的诠释，
And I 've spend time , trying to find the one
我花了很多时间，为的只是要寻找它，
Finally ,i realize every time You are near by,
终于，我明白每当你靠近，
That if my life is the songs then you are the world,
那我的生命好比这首歌而你就是全世界，
Fulfills with perfect mind,
充满着完美的思想 ，
Chorus 2
Its just a song for two of us,
这是我们两人的，
Only you and me are discussed,
里头只有你和我，
We together from now on,
从此我们在一起，
Like poetry without the scope,
就像没有限制的诗集，
Every time your love shines on my heart ,I''ll always free,
每当你的爱在我的心里发亮的时，我就很自由，
Together we walk along,with my voice and yours in song,
我们一起跟着这首歌并肩同行。
Together we walk along,with my voice and yours in song.
我们一起跟着这首歌并肩同行。

A Simple But Meaningful Philosophy

1. I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.

我愛你不是因為你是誰，而是我在你面前可以是誰。

2. No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry.

沒有男人或女人是值得你為他流眼淚，值得的那一位，不會要你哭。

3. Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

那人不是你所想般愛你，但不代表那人不是全心全意地愛你。

4. A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.

一個真正的朋友是向著你伸手，觸動你心靈的人。

5. The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can't have them.

掛念一個人最差的方式，就是你坐在他身旁，而知道你不能擁有他。

6. Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.

就算你不快樂也不要皺眉，因為你永不知道誰會愛上你的笑容。

7. To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.

在世界裡你可能只是某人，但對某人你可能是全世界。

8. Don't waste your time on a man/woman, who isn't willing to waste their time on you.

不要花時間在一個不會花時間在你身上的人。

9. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when

we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful.

可能神要我們在遇到那位對的人之前先遇上一些錯的人，讓我們遇到那位對先生/對小姐時懂得珍惜。

10. Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened.

不要因為完結而哭，要為曾經發生而微笑。

11. There's always going to be people that hurt you so what you have to do is keep on trusting

and just be more careful about who you trust next time around.

這個世界永遠也會有一些傷害你的人，你要做的就是繼續去信人和小心你下次信的人。

12. Make yourself a better person and know who you are before you try and know someone else and expect them to know you.

在你嘗試了解其他人和盼望其他人明白你之前，先把你自己變成一個更好的人和了解你自己。

13. Don't try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to.

不要太努力去找，最好的東西是在你最預計不到的時候出現。

REMEMBER: WHATEVER HAPPENS, HAPPENS FOR A REASON.

緊記: 所有事也是因果循環的。

*This is what i get from a mail then i found out that many Things from the mail are very useful so i would like to share with u all here.Thus,i really hope that all of us learn some lesson and get the massages from these philosophy.

今日消遣之冷笑话

在这里我有几个冷笑话要与大家分享。希望看了以后能够为你们带来欢乐。哈哈！！！

笑话(1)-上帝把所有人都骗了,因为地狱才是最美的！佛知道真相，所以佛说：''我不入地狱，谁入地狱？

笑话(2)－我向星星许了个愿。我并不是真的相信它，但是反正是免费的，而且也没有证据证明它不灵。

笑话(3)-人来到世界的时候是哭的，因为有很多困难等着你去面对，但人死去的时候在笑，旁边的人却在哭，因为你的哭已经受完了，他们还要继续受苦。

笑话(4)－听说：抽烟身体好，赌博练头脑，打架练手脚，抢劫练长跑，吃饭不吃菜，省钱谈恋爱。

笑话(5)-病人：我失眠了。
医生：这些药丸，红色让你梦到刘德华；白色梦到阿伦；绿色梦到王力宏。
病人：那如果我全部服下去呢？
医生：那你可以见到张国荣。

好啦暂时就到此为止步以免让你们着凉。。。哈哈！！！！希望这一些笑话能为你们忙碌的人生带来一点点欢乐。STPM is around the corner ,lets give out all of our best in this final lap in order we have no regret in the future.

爱情密码 U-Z

U－Understand
We must understand our lover personality n characteristic well if not it is hard 4 us 2 get along wif him/her.
还没开始一段恋情之前我们现得充分了解对方。

Vow-誓言
A vow can makes ur lover feel dat hw deep was ur love on him/her.
一个真心真意的誓言可以让对方感到很窝心。

W－Willingness愿意
We may not accept our lover request all the time coz we have our own principle.We should noe hw 2 reject his/her request wen u dun wish 2 fulfill it,n if dey really loves u dey sure will respect ur decision.
符合对方的要求可以表现出你的爱意但盲目的符合就不太好了。所有事情都有它的极限包括符合程度在内。


X-Expression表达
We should express our feeling to each other wen we r in relationship so that we can find the problems lies between us.
两人在一起就该坦诚相对以免延伸不必要的误会。

Y-Yield退让
When 2 person dat come frm different go along together ,sometime there will be some argument but if both of dem willing 2 calm down themselves n sit down 2 discuss abt their problem,for sure their will be solved.
在一段感情里，争吵是难免的但忍一时风平浪静，退一步海阔天空，不要与爱人计较这么多啦。

Z－Zest热情
I am sure dat there is no one is this world willing 2 hv a dull n formless lover.We hv 2 show our zest in order to improve ur relationship.
没有有人会希望自己的另一半常常处于低潮，适当的热情有助于两人的感情。

So dats all 4 the love code frm A-Z. So after u read it ,Got any comments and suggestion?N the most important is hw many codes u alrdy unlocked or which one of dem u unable to unlock.

Love Code(爱情密码)Q-T

Q-QUARTER宽恕
Everyone can do mistake including ur lover.Thus, u must learn hw 2 forgive r lover mistake because he/she is ur loved one and the only one.
爱情里面怎么可以少了宽恕这两个字呢？宽恕的能量可以维持一段感情。

R-Recieve接受
We must appreciate and recieve watever our lover done 4 us,dun even tink dat it is compulsary but should be feel glad n lucky coz u got such kind of lover.
请别把爱侣的付出视为理所当然而是要格外珍惜。

S-Share分享
As a couple both of dem must share wif each other about their sadness n happiness.
若爱上一个人那就该分享与分担他/她的喜怒哀愁。

T-Try尝试
We a couple get along for a long period of time,they may found out dat their relationship begin 2 boring,dis is the time both of them take out their courage n try to step on another level of their relationship.(the relationship wether can sucess mostly depends on hw dey curb dis problem.
即使爱情已到了瓶颈恋人们还是要尝试突破这一个障碍以便共创更美好的未来。

Love Code(爱情密码)M-P

M-Mature成熟
We must be mentally n physically mature so that our relationship can have a good ending.
人成熟一点，你的爱情就会早熟一点，直到开花结果。

N－Natural自然
We must be natural went we get into a relationship if not we r not going 2 enjoy in this relationship but its just only suffer.
流于自然的爱情才会细水常流。

O-Observe观察
We need 2 observe our lover coz dis will let us understand he/she more.
观察你的另一半是更了解他/她的捷径。

P－Protect保护
As a boyfriend u must take care of ur girlfriend but on the other hand the girlfriend also must take care of their boyfriend especially take care of the feelings n honour.
做难友的理所当然要保护好他的女友但身为女友的也要保护好她的男友尤其是男友的尊严。

Love Code(爱情密码)I-L

I－Independence独立
Do not over count on ur lover or else this will the make the situation become worst.(ur action not a love act but just cause ur lover feel dat its a burden)
幸福是被爱的人需要但过分的依赖只会给对方带来负担而不是幸福。

J－Jealousy妒忌
Appropriate jealousy shows ur care towards ur lover.
适当的醋意显示出他/她在你心目中的地位但切记是理智的吃醋而不是无理取闹的吃醋。

K－Kiss吻
Kiss is a must in a relationship coz sometimes a kiss worth thousands words
一吻胜过千言万语。

L－Love爱
In a relationship we must be love each other in order to have a happy ending.
一段真挚的感情怎么能少得了"爱"这一个元素呢？？

Love Code(爱情密码)E-H

E－Enjoy享受
We have to enjoy the process of the relationship no matter its happy or sad coz its will be the sweetest memory in the future wen u look back on it.
我们要享受这段感情给你带来的开心，快乐，幸福等等。要懂得享受一切不要只懂得鸡蛋里挑骨头。

F-Freedom 自由
Although both of u r lover but u all still hv 2 gv each other hv their own privacy in order to let dem hv a 'space ' to tk a breath.
虽然两人贵为恋人但还是要给对方一点私人空间因为他/她是你的爱人而不是奴隶。

G－Give付出
We must contribute our effort in our relationship ,pls be remember dat dis relationship is a two ways communication dun just hopping dat either of the side contribute all the efforts n the other one just accept without giving any respond.
在爱情的路上是需要付出的，有付出的爱情不一定会得到收获但没有付出的爱情绝对没有收获。

H-Heart心
Heart is an important'tool' in a relationship,we must love our lover frm the bottom of our heart.
一个用心去经营的爱情才称得上是真心相爱。

Love Code(爱情密码)A-D

Now i'm gonna to tell u all the love code from A-Z.C u able to unlock hw many of dem.

A-Accept接受
There is nobody is this world is perfect.If both of u are destined to be lover,u must accept he/she 's imperfect without any regret .
十全十美的人是不可能存在的，既然有缘成为恋人就应该接受对方的一切（无论是缺点或是优点也得欣然接受)

B-Believe相信
If u unable fully believe ur lover,this relationship mostly will end up wif break up coz trustworthy plays an important role in a relationship.
既然已成为恋人那就应该给予你的另一半百分百的信任。

C－Care 关心
The care from you to him /her means alot to him/her coz this shows dat their importance in your life.
对恋人的关心是不需要理由的，一个真诚的关心就战胜千万个甜言蜜语。

D－Devoted全心全意
U must fully devoted in ur relationship n tk it serious,Pls dun treat ur relationship its just a game 2 play for fun.
要全心全意的爱你的爱人，请别把爱情当儿戏以免伤了对方的心以及浪费彼此的时间。

不识露花真面目

不识露花真面目，只原剑心还未露，
讲到就是会做到，只是时辰还未到，
地利人和帮不到，天时偏偏又迟到，
摘花花谢是常道，何时才会看得到？
一切最后就知道，到时别装看不到。

考试秘方

考题让人很烦心，
试题做到没耐心，
将来是否能随心，
至今还是很担心。
随心所欲不愁苦，
遇上难题当吃苦，
而我心里很清楚，
安分守己是出路。

If there is a chance to turn back time

This is the essay title i wrote few days ago.Inside the essay i din write anything about me,i write about four specific character that have different wishes(a son/daughter that has lost their parents,a person who miss his/her true love,a prisoner & a person who is going to die soon.)

Why do we wan to turn back time?The main factor here is----"Regret".Most of the people would like to turn back time is because they are not satisfied with the situation dat they are having now and they would like to change the past if they are given a chance.

"Regret",do u all have regret before?Iszit this regret can onli be heal by turn back the time?Why do we have regret?iszit we do not done well enough in the past? Or we are Not given enuf chances to do the things dat we wanted to do? All of these questions are cant be answer coz there are no marking scheme for all this question and the answer can onli be found deep inside our heart.

Until today we still dunno whether turn back time is a mission impossible or possible,but the onli thing that we can do in order not to let ourselves regret is by appreciate all the things that u are having now and try ur very best to achieve ur GOAL!!!

I do admit dat all these solution is easy to be write but it is hard to practice in our daily life but what can we do?wait for a time machine to be appear? NO WAY!!!!!!! All these ways are the onli and the best way dat we can try. We dun we just have a try,"belum try belum tahu, sekali try hari-hari mahu"rite?hahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

一无是处

一筹莫展多无奈，
无法释怀真难耐，
是非威力很厉害，
处处碰钉击要害。

人人为我，我为人人

人生何时能自我？
人当绅士本难为？
为何自欺又欺人？
我又是否在帮人？

理所当然

绅士做了没人理，
所以引来一身蚁，
道士绅士不易当，
然而偏偏人要当。